Have you ever tried to be nice but ended up P**sing everyone off?

this is almost funny how bad it turned out. so i was almost late for class today and there were only a few seats left and i wanted to sit to this girl who is an acquaintance who i like but figured i probably shouldnt because she usully sits next to the boyfriend and the boyfriend wasnt there yet so i sat next to someone else. so as class went on she kept giving me these wierd looks and i didnt know why, maybe i thought because i didint move seats when the boyfriend didnt show up. but i was in such a rush in the morning that i didnt even realize that i was sitting next to the boyfriend the whole time, who was sitting with other friends. and the worst part was i relazied there were two seats when i went in, one next to her the other next to the boyfriend. i honestly thought it was some other kid. haha im not too worried about it they both like me im sure it will blow over but has anything like that ever happened to you?
Have you ever tried to be nice but ended up P**sing everyone off?
I believe you. No, it didn't happen to me.
Reply:Yes, sometimes it's just kind of impossible to know what to do. I think people should be more understanding and not read too much into every little thing.
Reply:You did your best to be polite; that's really all you can ever do. There will always be SOMEBODY who takes it amiss. Just shrug it off and forget about it.
Reply:I can see why you might feel that way, because I can tell you one thing for sure - You're p**sing ME off.
Reply:I used to. I don't even bother trying to be nice anymore. Whoever said that "kindess is it's own reward" didn't have a clue as to what they were talking about.
Reply:YES xoxo
Reply:Oh yes! With me it's called foot-in-mouth syndrome.
Reply:I tried coming into work on a day I should have stayed home because of the weather (icy roads). So I called my boss and asked if anyone else had come in, he said no, so I told him I would be in a little late, but I was coming. On my way to work I slid off into a ditch and had to get someone to pull my car out. I called my boss and said I don't think I can make it, he said well do you have anything improtant to do, I couldn't think, I mean I just got into an accident, so I said no. Well that was ok then. So I came into work on Monday and got a nice little yellow note from my boss to come into his office. He gave me hell for not getting a job done. I explained how bad the roads where and he even knew himself, and still yelled at me. That's what I get for trying to do a good thing and come to work when no one else would. What really upsets me is that he knew how bad the driving conditions were the first time I called, before I left home, and he knows I'm pregnant! Needless to say I got kicked in the @ss for trying to do a good thing. So I know what you are saying.
Reply:I have no idea what the h*ll that means and how it could possibly be of any interest to you, much less anybody else!!